January 15, 2008

  • Waiting Room

    The small waiting room at my doctor’s office was packed.  I sat down in the only remaining chair and
    settled in for the long wait.  I stifled
    my cough and took my book out to read.  A
    small black cloud slowly formed over my head as I tried vainly to ignore
    everyone else. 

    There was a family with a small girl slowly getting
    ready to leave.  The mom and dad were still
    chatting with another woman.  The girl
    was probably just under 2 years old with an easy smile and bright, cheery eyes.  She  walked around the waiting room and
    gradually laid down on the carpet.  The
    dad picked her up, brushed off her sweater and chuckled.  But every time he put her back down on her
    feet, she would simply lie down on the floor and didn’t want to get up.  The mom mentioned in a somewhat embarrassed
    voice that the girl was tired because she missed her afternoon nap.

    The dad tried to pick her up again but she reacted like a crab
    turned upside down.  Her arms and legs
    were frantically swatting away any attempts to pick her up.  Finally in a mock exasperated voice, the dad
    told the girl that they were leaving. 
    But she wasn’t having any of this. 
    One of the women laughingly remarked, “She’s got daddy around her little
    fingers.”  Her dad took out his camera
    and took a couple of pictures.  He turned to
    the lady and said, “When she’s grown up, we’ll show her how naughty she
    was.”  After a few minutes, everyone was
    ready to leave and the girl reluctantly agreed to go home.  She also knew she was the centre of attention
    and waved goodbye to everyone including the receptionist. 

    There was also another young boy perhaps a bit older.  He stayed closed to his mom while the girl
    took center stage.  Her mom had
    everything for him in his stroller from snacks, water, books, toys and extra
    clothing.   After the girl left, he
    wandered from his mom’s lap and went for the toys in the waiting room.  He wasn’t shy at all.  He took out some toys and handed it to a
    lady.  She chuckled, put her book down
    and said thank you to the little boy.  She
    looked at the boy’s mom and said “It’s been awhile since I’ve played with toys.  I don’t have any grandchildren yet.”   I was hoping he would come over but I also
    didn’t want to infect him with whatever I had. 
    Soon, it was the boy’s turn to go in. 
    The father decided to wait outside. 

    After a minute or two, everyone could hear the boy loudly crying.  When he finally came out, he had a grim,
    serious look on his face and a lollipop in each hand. 
    The mom told the father that the boy tried to make a run for the door
    when the doctor was looking for the syringes. 
    This got a chuckle out of everyone in the waiting room.  They soon left with the boy still clutching
    on to his lollipops and waving goodbye to the receptionist. 

    While the kids made the wait a bit more bearable, it was an
    older lady who left a stronger impression.  She was probably in her early 60’s.  She came out of the doctor’s office with a
    younger lady who looked like her daughter. 
    The older lady hobbled slowly to a chair with the help of a cane and sat
    down near me.  Her fingers were beginning
    to be gnarled with arthritis.  Her left
    arm appeared to be paralyzed.  She looked
    tired and exhausted by the whole ordeal. 
    Her clothes were simple and I wondered if it was enough to ward off the
    cold winds of winter.  Her daughter came
    back from the receptionist after booking her next appointment.  The mom quietly repeated the date and
    nodded.  She painfully pulled herself up
    with her daughter’s assistance.  She
    shuffled to the door and they quietly left. 

    My own ailments don't seem that bad anymore.

Comments (17)

  • What an endearing story. 
    So, are you OK?  I hope you feel better!!

  • i was in a waiting room not long ago too.  while i was there, i saw that one of the patients had mental problems; he was being accompanied by a psychologist who took notes on everything he was doing and saying, and while he seemed able to function well he certainly said some things that suggested he wasn't completely ok. 

    hmm...  that reminds me of my grandpa, who's still in the hospital and still isn't doing so well.  the doctors think they might have to amputate up to his knee because his foot isn't healing well. 

  • Observing people can teach a great deal as each one of those you mentioned had their own way of living. From the small child to the elderly woman, it is the path we all take but in our own manner and with our own difficulties.

  • Matt...always the observer!!

  • Have you thought about adopting?

  • Sounds like some of the most fundamental lessons of life were there to be found in that waiting room.  Of course, that's probably true of most anywhere we go in life, but so often we don't see - or learn - those lessons.

  • I always found that if I look around I can find someone worst off than me...that doesn't take away from what your ailment is...I hope you got the care and medication that you need....I love how you describe things in everyday life, well done Matt... 'Til The Next

  • Hmmmm that was really thought provoking... I remember when I was little I would always refuse to have them stick that wooden thing down my mouth to look at mythroat cuz I thought it hurt so bad so I would never open my mouth for  awhile until I grapsed the concept that I had to if I wanted to get out of that hell hole.  This got me thinking a little about how health is definately something I take for granted.... *sigh*  Hope you're feeling better. :3 

  • genius! when i have kids i'm gonna take pictures of them in awkward and embarassing moments.

    jonas

  • You are so observant all the time.  The story about the boy made my morning.  Hope you're feeling better now!

  • It's funny how our roles get switched as we get older.

  • hey, your appointment with the doctor isn't about serious stuff like flu or something right? coz' you get to observe lots :)

    anyway, hope you're doing great. weather is crazy as always but getting sick or something is a big hassle.

  • Well I hope you get better. :) And stay warm, it will be cold this weekend. *glup*

    Well I have been thinking about live, I am 28 turning 29 pretty soon. And I am questioning what I really want to do in live.

  • RYC: Thank you. I want a chance again to try the relationship in reality not theory

  • Physicians' offices are such good meeting places. Personally, I have seen the whole atmosphere change because of some such kids or adults in my own waiting room. You are very perceptive and your fresh ideas about writing are so wholesome and beautiful. Such an ordinary thing, but so beautifully written. Loved it.

    Hope you are feeling a whole lot better. Did the doctor give you lollipops also? Some of my adult patients used to ask me to give one or two to them.

  • poor mother...
    =[
    I liked how the little boy tried to run away :D
    i wish i was there to see that

    but honestly i really hope the mom gets better...
    she's 60...still pretty young
    T_T

  • I hope you're feeling much better as you're reading this....seems like a lot of little ones are sick, as well as elder people.  I wish them well!  

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