January 21, 2008

  • Xanga

    This is one stubborn bug. 
    It’s clinging on to my throat and sinus cavity.  My dad is also sick with a bad cold and my
    sister is recovering from a cold too.  I’ve
    finished my antibiotics but am still taking cold medication plus some Chinese herbal
    tea.  I’m feeling better.  My bf and I have tickets to the symphony this
    weekend so I’m hoping this bug will be gone  by then. 
    I think part of the problem is that I don’t get enough exercise as
    well.  I don’t think twice about working
    late and taking work home.  I really need
    to fix this part of my life.  It’s been a
    struggle for the past few years now. 

    I read John’s entry the other day about Xanga.  John actually works for Xanga so it's interesting to read a bit about what goes on behind the scenes.   Of
    course, as luck would have it, I can’t find his entry anymore.  But he started to write about Xanga and how
    different it is from other sites such as LiveJournal and WordPress.  I checked out those sites before coming back
    to Xanga.  Part of the reason is that I
    was simply too lazy to learn new things.  But I
    really enjoyed Xanga because of this sense of virtual community.

    I’ve come to enjoy the “regulars” who drop by
    since I’ve started my Xanga and the new subscribers who I’ve come to know.  What I also like about Xanga is the “cross
    pollination” that goes on.  I come upon
    new sites that I subscribe to by simply reading their comments on blogs that I
    subscribe to.  That’s how I came across Zsa_md and Christao408.   I’m sure most of you do the same thing
    too.  What’s also interesting is the
    sense of community isn’t necessarily generated exclusively from the blogrings
    that I belong to.

    I used to belong to a blogring for Asians something or another.  With the exception of a couple of visits, no
    one from that blogring visited my site for a couple of months. 
    Part of it was partly my fault too. 
    I wasn’t exactly very active on their sites.  But it felt like I was in this big city and
    no one really cared.  I was just another
    drop in the ocean.   

    I subscribe to about 60 sites now compared to about a hundred a year ago.  Some people have dropped off and some I lost
    tracked off during my hiatus from Xanga.   I’m sure a
    few of them don’t write anymore.   I
    sometimes wonder what happened to those that have dropped off.  People like Len_q, Hijack88, Toroboy, Jcfans,
    etc…  They were around when I started my
    Xanga and then their entries sort of just stopped.  I hope they are doing fine.   There were always a few regulars back then that encourage newbies such as myself with tips, comments and kind words.  One of those was Kelvin who some of you may remember.  He's my role model for writing and blogging.  He simply was a craftsman and I enjoyed visiting his site.  He took a lot of care with his entries and would constantly edit it to make sure it came out right. 

    So how strong do you feel this sense of community is?  What do you think differentiates Xanga from
    other sites? 

Comments (18)

  • ryc:
    i really want to...but what good does it do? Like...things you say cant be taken back and i dont want to cause drama even though i really want my frustration to be known =[

    I really hope your sickness is gone by the time the weekend hits. Don't stress too much, and if you were thinkign about going to work out when you're sick...dont =[
    let your body heal first.
    And i can really relate to what you wrote. It's sad though...cuz i had like over 5 xangas before this one...and I really want to read my old entries and see what people wrote and remember the people who helped me become the person i am today [dang i use I a lot...i'm like...a selfobsessed hoe] =[

  • I returned to Xanga absolutely for the community. It is much easier for novice internet users to jump in and create their own personalized blog, which makes it palatable for a *much* wider market than WordPress.

    WordPress is a very different animal, and comes in two different flavors; the .com version is a hosted blogging platform not unlike Xanga, but was created significantly later on and therefore doesn't have quite the community that Xanga has.

    The .org version is a downloadable application you can install on your own server, which you can tweak to high hell. It is this customizability that makes WordPress *the* standard blogging platform if you have a vested interest in having total control over all the features of your blog (and the ability to code new ones if you so wish). It is therefore ideal for anyone who wants to create a blog for business purposes, anyone who is a techie/geek and loves open source code, and graphic designers who want absolute domination over the look of their blog. I love WordPress because of this.

    LiveJournal is basically like Xanga to me, but with a clunkier interface.

    I hope you feel better btw!

  • i felt lazy doing the whole xanga thing months ago or maybe just curiosity to try other sites but then, the longer time passes the more i think of going back. i believe what is great about would be the community. i was comparing "comments" from other sites and so far, nothing beats xanga people. maybe it's the set up but we're actually in a culture here.

    i also liked the way xanga upgraded: music, the minis, themes, etc. it was done is a way where one wouldn't abuse especially on the music field.

    what i'm sore about is that, all these time and i still don't know if there exists a xanga shirt for sale or for free out there :(

  • I'm not sure about the community, but I am thankful that there's a gay outlet online where I can talk about anything I want, and hear from people about what they think. I don't get nearly the amount of reponses that I would like, but my entries aren't great, either lol

    I've had a sore throat and then it almost developed into a cough thing, but I am recovering because I take a lot of vitamin c tablets. Have you tried them? They worked really well with me.

  • the community is the #1 reason why i stick around. i've tried other places too but it just wasn't the same.

    jonas

  • Thank you for mentioning me in your post matt. It is an honor to know beautiful people like you and Christao. 

    What antibiotics did you take? If your throat continues to be as sore as you say, may be you need a prescription gargle that is exceedingly good. Let me know and I will tell you how to get it.  or perhaps you are not taking the right Abx.

    I love the way you have described Xanga as a community. What a neat concept.  I have met very very fine people/writers through this blog.

  • Definitely here for the community!  It was such a loss when you quit last time!!  So glad you're back.  I used to have my own blog using Drupal but no one ever visited and it was such a pain in the butt upgrading the software each time!

  • yah i took my post down - i just got a lot of messages from ppl saying, "you never replied to my message from ___ months ago" and asking for customer service help.  a bit ironic actually...

  • Man, I totally miss Kelvin's entries.

  • Hope you recover soon!!

  • haha...once my premium expires i might move to livejournal. 

  • I've toyed with Blogger a bit, but still like the Xangaverse best. 
    Do take care of yourself!  I hope you feel better.

  • Very interesting post.  I sort of stumbled into Xanga through a friend, ToyPetFishes.  He blogged and wrote interesting things - although he doesn't have nearly as much free time to blog as he used to.  I was about to move to Thailand and wanted a way to keep my family and friends up to date with my experiences, without having to write emails to everyone describing the same things over and over.  So starting a Xanga blog seemed like an easy solution.

    As for the other programs, I haven't actively tried to blog on any of them.  I just have accounts here and there as necessary to respond to other friends' blogs.  One that really bugs me is Blogger.  I know it is supposed to be user friendly, but it is a little too smart for its own good.  It sees that I'm in Thailand so it assumes, when I go to a friend's blog, that I want all of the navigational materials in Thai.  Sure, I can read Thai but I haven't all day!

    Anyhow, Xanga is where I've been so far and it seems good enough.

    As for the community, as much as I disparage the large amount of my life I and others spend sitting in front of the computer, I can say that my world has become even wider and my number of friends and acquaintences even more diverse since I started blogging and writing trip reports at airliners.net.  (Yeah, I'm an airplane geek, too...)

    Thanks for the positive remarks and certainly I send them right back to you.

    Khap khun khrap!

  • Xanga is the only site I use for blogging. I guess I found a place that is still comfortable and a community that is open and honest. Or I maybe lazy.

  • RYC: I had one of those days where I needed to remind myself that I have met the enemy and it is me.

  • i have tried bloggers but it seems that it's too difficult to use (actually because i don't bother to learn how to use) it seems that xanga is the most user-friendly site, i mean you don't have to know anything like graphics etc.

    and of course, if you have regular comments and subscribers/subscriptions, u  would stick to it.

  • sixty?! omg! I have twenty

    I've no memory of why Xanga but I like it and will stay ... why? ... laziness ... and it beats the hell out of that evil facebook crap

  • You are doing very well on Xanga.  I usually get only about 2 or 3 comments at most, perhaps my life ain't very interesting.  I find that the guys on Xanga are quite nice though, I just have been on a bit of a hiatus for a while, playing on Facebook, but the pokey thing gets kind of boring after a while.

    I hope you are feeling better...I could lend you my doctor if you'd like ;)

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